Healthy Leaders


Jesus Loves Me, He Loves Me Not

Matthew RohrsMatthew Rohrs

Keeping Christ Central

In a recent staff devotions, I asked our team a simple question: “How many of you have thought sometime today, ‘God really loves me’?”

Everyone in the room had John 3:16 memorized, knew other verses about God’s immeasurable love, and could chime in on “Jesus Loves Me” in the time it takes to say flannelgraph. So every hand shot up, right? In actuality, four hands out of 30 went up. Only four.

And this isn’t unique to our organization, HOPE. In asking this question to dozens of followers of Jesus, I hear the same thing:

“I just don’t think much about God’s love for me on a daily basis, and if I’m honest, I struggle to believe it.”

This struggle isn’t usually due to lack of information. We know God’s love led to Christ’s sacrifice on the cross. But our conviction that God’s love secures our salvation doesn’t always translate into confidence that He really wants us near Him today. It’s like we are playing the old game of “He loves me” – pull off a petal – “He loves me not” – pull another one, laughing at our foolishness even as we hope for some feeling of certainty.

In His last major teaching before His arrest and crucifixion, Jesus chooses a vivid metaphor that reveals His heart for those who follow and obey Him. He states in John 15, “I am the true Vine, and My Father is the Vinedresser,” going on to compare His disciples to branches that must abide in the vine in order to live and bear fruit.

This word abide in Greek means to keep continually or remain as one. It occurs 11 times in this chapter – not strive, not do, not achieve. Abide. First and foremost, Jesus invites us into relationship with Him, to “abide in His love” (verse 9).

If this was Jesus’ major point of emphasis as He prepared to leave His disciples and go to the cross, how much more do we need these words today?

If you, like me, have struggled with this, here are some practical things God has been teaching me.

While abiding might seem tangential to our work at HOPE, I believe it’s vital. Only when we regularly receive God’s love can we share that love with clients. Only from a posture of abiding can we truly bear fruit for God’s Kingdom.

May we all learn to receive God’s limitless affection, His delight in us: broken, foolish humans that we are. Abide in His love. Receive it every day. And then with the joy of Christ in you, live every moment for Him.

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